SAGITTARIUS With:ARIES’ Horoscope Match

October 27th, 2007 by ife


When Aries and Sagittarius come together, it’s often a match made in
heaven! These partners are highly compatible; they have a dynamic
relationship. Both are explorers and pioneers. This relationship is
always torrid and exciting, and both partners are always looking for
adventure. They both get a lot out of experiencing life, rather than
just reading about it. But they need to be careful: this is one of the
more accident-prone relationships! Aries is always in a rush and
Sagittarius tends to look at everything but the obvious.

Aries
and Sagittarius make very good friends as well as lovers. They
understand each other, and both view life with optimism and enthusiasm.
Problems are rare, but sometimes Aries may be too possessive for
freedom-loving Sagittarius. On the other hand, Aries is more sensitive
than the jovial Archer; Sagittarius must be careful to think before
they speak and say something too blunt or hurtful. But even when they
do have problems, these partners can forgive and forget easily. Both
partners get over arguments quickly, and don’t hold grudges.

Aries
is ruled by Mars and Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter. Both of these
Planets are masculine, so they tend to look at the world in the same
way. Jupiter is about indulgence and aspirations, so Sagittarius likes
to take a risk. Mars is all about taking the initiative. Whenever Aries
comes up with a new idea — as they so often do — Sagittarius is eager
to go along with their partner for the experience.

Both Aries
and Sagittarius are Fire Signs. This combination can produce an eternal
flame. Both are dynamic and always on the go. They have endless
resources of energy, so it’s rare for one partner to fizzle out on the
other. Although they may disagree their differences of opinion don’t
last long — Aries is too busy moving on to the next challenge to hold
a grudge, and Sag will forgive and forget just as quickly.

Aries
is a Cardinal Sign and Sagittarius is a Mutable Sign. Aries is the
initiator of new projects and ideas, and Sagittarius will accept these
ideas as long as they are included in the plans. When these partners
work together, they won’t argue over who gets to take the credit for
their achievements. Aries likes glory, and Sagittarius is happy to be
controlling events from the background. Both Signs are better at
starting things than ending them, but while Aries gets bored easily,
Sagittarius might resist moving on before they have learned all they
want to know from a given situation.

The best aspect of an
Aries-Sagittarius relationship is their mutual tendency to be the
pioneers and explorers of the Zodiac. They are well matched in their
enthusiasm, energy, and drive. Their common interests and similar
personalities make them a very compatible couple.

Sagittarius In Relationships

October 24th, 2007 by ife

Sagittarius, a masculine sign, is adventurous and not averse to the thrill of risk-taking. Your positive, life-affirming optimism makes you a lot of fun and great to be around. You love any new form of sexual expression that challenges and excites you. Both tolerant and eager to please, your honesty can sometimes prove too much for those who prefer a more mysterious, or veiled approach to love.

Your ancient emblem is the Centaur, a mythical creature famed for its wisdom and its unique half-man, half-horse combination of the human intellect and animal passions.

These animal passions are pretty much straightforward in their expression. You don’t seek convoluted or theoretical discussions on the nature of love; you’d rather get on with it, because it is natural and you hate to thwart nature in the pursuit of self-expression…

A famous emblem for Sagittarius is the Archer, armed with the arrow of truth. Free and honest in your approach, you expect others to be likewise. Your arrow shoots for the stars, holding the blazing light of truth in an arc that illuminates the world.

Admirers should remember that your honesty can on occasions be brutally frank, especially when extolling the virtues of your actions, or recounting one of your more dubious exploits.

Sagittarius is a mutable sign; you are best involved with a steadier, stronger personality, who can understand your need for independence (and desire for variety), yet still be there for you even after you have smashed a few dinnerplates in frustration. Your frank and open motives are often misunderstood.

You are willing to experiment with all manner of relationship styles, although you hate to be tied down in any way. So long as your partner is able to keep up with your wide-ranging interests and is prepared to come up with new experiments in lovemaking (and certainly does not mind you doing the same), your relationship will be exciting and reasonably long-lasting. Mutual honesty is the key to success for the Sagittarian.

SAGITTARIUS With:LEO:-Love Can Make It Work

October 24th, 2007 by ife

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Leo and Sagittarius have the same warm,
generous, loving traits, but what Leo has yet to learn is that
Sagittarius ‘gives’ to everyone - but no one captures his or her
exclusive attention for long; Leo could get his or her heart broken in
this scenario. Sagittarius is apt to come up with some wild idea, or
big gamble, in a chance to make a lot of money, and will entice Leo’s
support, but should everything fall through, or losses prevail, then
Sagittarius will still be grateful for Leo’s love and support, but will
make him/her share the blame.

Sagittarius must have his/her ’space’ for exercising the personal
freedom so well loved by the centaur. Sagittarius cannot understand Leo
having fits of jealousy over a few harmless flirtations of his/hers,
but will be very possessive of Leo. Being an outdoor person and a
sports enthusiast, Sagittarius will not mind if Leo prefers to stay at
home in comfort, as long as they can reach agreements on other
recreational pursuits for togetherness.

If Leo does not try to tame this one, and does not condemn and
argue over the sexual indiscretions that he/she commits, Sagittarius
may someday decide that there is no reason to look elsewhere for the
satisfaction he/she can find at home. This can be a relationship that
has the potential to be very rewarding, with the right combination of
the compatibility charts. Love can make it work.

How do you see Leo? You’re
happy that Leo enjoys being the life and soul of parties just as much
as you. But you don’t relish being bossed around too much - even by
another Fire sign.

How does your Leo partner see you? They
would love to follow you off into the horizon, but they are much too
used to being the leader. They also realize they have a greater need
for admiration than you do.

How to make things better: Accept that you both have a great deal going for you. Accept each other’s ways and get on and enjoy life to the full.

SAGITTARIUS With:ARIES:- A Match Made In Heaven

October 24th, 2007 by ife

SAGITTARIUS With:ARIES    
lovers, singles, relationship matches, mates, soul mates, A Match Made In Heaven

Aries and Sagittarius are both the energetic fire signs and share a love of the outdoors, physical activity, and doing various things together. For this reason, there will probably be an instant attraction on the part of these two that could last a very long time, although Aries may doubt the Sagittarian’s ability to make a success of a long term commitment, and in turn, Sagittarius could believe that Aries is ideal as long as Aries accepts the Sagittarian’s idea of freedom.

The Sagittarian feels that Aries should conquer the jealousy he or she may feel over what the Sagittarian considers ‘harmless’ flirtations. Aries feels that the Sagittarian must be true in order to earn any respect and consideration he or she has any right to. Later in life, Sagittarius may come to appreciate the warmth and advantages of the domestic scene, but Aries can not rely on this.

No matter what age, the Sagittarian will always gamble with life and relationships, which could keep Aries in an angry mood most of the time. At least life with Sagittarius will never be hum-drum, if Aries nerves can withstand so much chaos. Sagittarius is not naturally faithful and feels most comfortable when juggling several affairs at once.

Aries, having much the same traits as Sagittarius, will find living with this individual an…interesting proposition, but not if raising a family is the Arian objective, as Sagittarius is anything but a family person. While there is love-a-plenty to go around, Sagittarius will rarely take the time with children that an Arian will. All in all this could be a very good match and if the stars are well aspected, you could say it is a match made in Heaven.

How do you see Aries? As someone who enjoys freedom as much as you. You enjoy the warmth of being with another Fire sign who shares your enthusiasm and joie de vivre.

How does your Aries partner see you? As an ideal soulmate in a myriad of different ways. But they are slightly worried that you might be torn between your sense of freedom and your possessiveness.

How to make things better: Admire each other’s colorful individuality and never try to fence each other in. Be totally honest, but remember that Aries is sensitive under that aggressive exterior.

Y’all gonna Pay….

September 24th, 2007 by ife

For every bit of sweat I lost….
Y’all gonna pay….
For every effort I wasted…. Y’all
gonna pay…..
For evey sleepless nite I had….
Y’all gonna pay….
For every lecture I miss… Y’all
gonna pay….

For every money I Lost and spend,
Y’all gonna pay….

Ain’t no Fool, I know my Value….
Ain’t no Toy. I know my worth…

F**K Y’all… U think U can Steal my
Ideas and go Scort free… If I don’t
get U Ama Get Ur M***… I am call
Y’all OLE coz U stole my Show away.

I put all my Life in; Now U are takin
it away from me.
Walai I swear… Baba e ma run
down… eyin Olori Buruku, Oloshi…
Asinwin… Ama Tell Y’all this…
Even If I forgiv U; GOD Almigty will
never forgive U…. After Takin ma
show from Me… Y’all wanna fool me
and still want me to Sing… Not on
Ur Life… Y’all Bombo Claout… Am
done with Activities…. My Hommies
Told me… this was gonna happen…
but I didn’t believe… Mama told me
to start takin responsiblity of what
I started and make sure I finish
it… I guess I broke this…. B’cos
Y’all Muther F**KERS took it from
me… But want thin she has always
told me is that… I’ll make it all
alone… without no one’s help but
GOD. Y’all will see; and will say he
said it… Had we known is what Y’all
gonna say and y’all gonna bit Ur
Finger… I promise Y’all that…
Y’all gonna pay…. Y’all gonna
pay… for throwin me out of ma
show… The Whole World is gonna know
what U have cooked that made the
House Burnt… Y’all will fail….
QUOTE ME… For shizzle in the Hizzle
for Reazzle….
MUTHER F**KERS

Nowadays, you can hardly hear that Jesus is coming back

August 23rd, 2007 by ife

Along Bello Street , off Oluwalogbon Street in Ketu, a sprawling Lagos suburb, lies the Christ Redemption Bible Church , known by all and sundry as the palace of diverse healings. Inside the church this Wednesday morning, a chorus of voices belonging to sundry women in a prayer session rises in supplication to the Almighty. You walk briskly past the supplicants into the office of the General Superintendent, where the man of God is

seated behind a large brown desk. Dressed in a simple pinkish guinea buba and sokoto, a silver watch on his left wrist, he welcomes you with open arms. The office itself dons the toga of absolute modesty: a little black radio by the pastor’s left hand, an AC lying idle at the moment, a huge standing fan from where cold breeze wafts into the room, two mobile phones on the table, a newspaper, a couple of files, a diary, a copy of the Holy Bible, a large poster hanging on the wall, and such other odds and ends.

How we started
"My name is Pastor John Ogundare," he says softly, both hands gripping your right hand in a warm handshake. The man of God tells you that his ministry has been on for ten solid years, even though he himself got born again 34 years ago at the Be Prepared Church in Ibadan . Before his ministry kicked off, however, he had been an elder of the Christ Apostolic Church . In his church then, Pastor Ogundare was the church secretary as well as the financial secretary in his district, from where he started exhibiting the tell tale signs of a prophet.

"Even while as an elder in CAC, God had been using one to pray for one or two people, and there would be signs and healings", he notes. He would later enrol at the Life Theological Seminary in Ikorodu, Lagos State , where he earned both a diploma and a degree in Theology.

Challenges of the ministry
Before deciding to take up a permanent appointment in God’s vineyard, Pastor Ogundare had worked in a number of companies, including the UAC, General Oil and Ashaka Cement Company, where he rose through the ranks to become a senior manager. In fact, when he just started the ministry, he combined his pastoral duties with his secular job. How easy was it?

"It was the grace of God," he tells you in his soft voice. "And I also thank God for my wife who God has been using to bless and guide me. My wife is someone who loves God very much. And I bless God because of his grace upon my life. I remember that in those days, when we had programmes, I would dash down from the office to the church.

After the programme, I would rush back to Victoria Island . But I made sure I attended to whatever I had on my table. The whole thing eventually led to my resignation."

Five years ago, he called it quits with his day job as a senior manager with Ashaka Cement to face his ministry full time. The cleric says some of his colleagues were complaining and writing petitions against him that he spent quality time counselling and praying for people on phone during work hours. He admits that he actually prayed for people on phone, but denies that such exercise ever affected his official duties in any way. In any case, the company decided to set up a panel to probe the allegations. He was soon after transferred to Gombe by the management, where he spent one full month.

Says the man of God: "I thank God for my wife and a few elders that we had in the church. They encouraged me to go to Gombe first, even if I would resign later. So, I went there, and after one month, I said I wanted to resign. But my boss, a white man who was also a strong Christian, sympathized with me. He asked me not to resign just like that. He said the company would give me a three-month paid vacation to sort myself out and think about what I really wanted to do. So, I came back to Lagos , travelling on the road for three days.

I arrived in Lagos on a Sunday, and I came straight to the church. I was very dirty, and when my church members saw me, they were crying, wondering what could have happened to me. I just walked into my office and my wife came, and we spoke. When we got home, we prayed and I told her, that, after God, the decision on what I would do next lay with her. I reminded her that her children were young and were still going to school and we would need to pay their school fees and all. But the following morning, she told me to go and resign.

She said we would eat whatever we had and that the Lord would take care of the children’s school fees. She said, what if I didn’t want to resign and the company just fired me? Or what if the church that God had committed into my hands scattered and went back into the world? I would have lost both and God would not forgive me. After listening to her, it was like a burden was removed from my mind. She wrote my resignation letter that morning. That was how I left."

Soon after, his wife, also a manager with another manufacturing company, equally resigned her position to fully join him in the ministry.

How we cope with the home front
With both Pastor John and Pastor (Mrs) Martha Ogundare fully involved in the ministry, you wonder how husband and wife cope with the demands of the home-front. "God has been taking control", he affirms. "Actually, our children are grown up. Our eldest child is in the United States studying Medicine. The second is in the university here, and the two youngest ones are in the boarding house."

In ten years, the Christ Redemption Bible Church has grown into a big phenomenon in this part of Lagos , with people coming to attend its programmes from even beyond the shores of Nigeria . With satellite churches in many parts of Nigeria as well as in London , England , and a programme on LTV every Tuesday night, you would think the General Superintendent would be a totally fulfilled man. But he says the church still has a long way to go.

"We believe we’ve not grown enough," he remarks. "Look, we have a commission from God to preach the gospel all over the world. So, as long as there remains non-Christians in the world, then we have not succeeded at all. And that is why we are not relenting. Very soon, we will be holding a crusade at Ijebu-Jesha, my hometown."

On prosperity preaching
Pastor Ogundare bears no grudges with pastors who make prosperity preaching their major preoccupation. What he frowns at is how everything is being centred round money by today’s preachers. "It is not a sin to preach prosperity," he explains. "But the way we handle it has made the society to see us as if we have abandoned what we should actually see as our focus. I teach prosperity. Prosperity is not about money alone.

It is about your marriage, about your health, and so on. But the way we hammer on prosperity and millions of naira makes our society to be worried and makes even the unbelievers to start suspecting us. And we have actually abandoned the key assignment. God told us, go ye into the world and preach the gospel. We need to resume the work of evangelism. Nowadays, you can hardly hear that Jesus is coming back again. Yet, whether we like it or not, rapture will take place."

I’m naturally quiet
In private conversations with this soft-spoken man of God, you will virtually have to strain your ears to hear the words flowing forth from his mouth. Yet when he mounts the pulpit, he undergoes a spontaneous transformation. That’s the Holy Spirit working, he quips. "One or two people have told me that," he agrees. "I’m a naturally quiet person. I hardly go out, unless it’s very necessary. I don’t socialize. I don’t have many friends. That’s me as a person. But when I’m on the pulpit, it’s the Holy Spirit that takes over and I won’t even know where those words are coming from."

Nigeria will arise
Pastor Ogundare enjoins Nigerians to be hopeful and prayerful, saying God is in control of things. " Nigeria is our country. We should always pray for its peace and progress. But I can assure you that, in the next five years, Nigeria will arise again. In the next five years, people from other parts of the world would want to spend their vacations in Nigeria .

And one thing I know is that, whatever that happens, happens because God allows such to happen. So, let us believe in God and be very hopeful. Let’s give our new leaders a chance, and very soon, we shall get there," he says.

These are the Word of PROPHET JOHN ABIODUN OGUNDARE!!!

The Broom

August 2nd, 2007 by ife

This custom is a very Western one. It began because African 496909American slaves were forbidden the ritual of marriage. The broom itself held a spiritual significance for many people of African descent because the new bride had usually helped other women in her new family sweep the courtyard clean. This symbolized her willingness to help out with her future family. During slavery, the couple would actually jump over a broom to begin the marriage. Today, this is becoming a traditional part of Afro-centric wedding ceremony as a way of honoring the trials of the couple’s ancestors. You jump the broom on your way out of the church.

In nearly all African tribes, the wedding is rich with symbolism representing the bringing together of two families. Anything that would center on this blending of families (such as the bride’s family and the groom’s family forming lines and then exchanging places) would be in keeping with this tradition. Have fun planning your African style wedding. You are not only creating a vibrant and visually appealing event, you are honoring your people who came before you.

African Wedding Attire

August 2nd, 2007 by ife

495African woven cloth reflects personal, societal, religious and political culture. Kente cloth is the primary woven fabric originally produced by the Ashanti peoples. The traditional red, gold and green in the design are liberation colors recognized by people of African descent the world over. RED for the blood shed by millions in captivity, GOLD for the mineral wealth symbolizing prosperity, and GREEN representing the land or homeland, Africa.

Boxes arranged in an "X" mean all ideas coming together at one point symbolizing leadership, consensus and the voice of the people. The stepped border motif symbolizes defense against the countless assaults and obstacles encountered in the course of an African lifetime. This can be found on African American theme invitations and accessories, even if you feel you want to have a more American wedding.

Traditional native dress for the women would be a headpiece (a gele’), a loose fitting or grand bou-bou or the wrap skirt (iro), shawl (iborum), and a short loose blouse (buba) made out of the same fabric. The groom wears a pair of slacks (sokoto), shirt (bubba), a long flowing jacket (agbada) and a rounded box-like hat (fila).

African American couples who chose a more American flare may choose the traditional white bridal gown for the bride and the groom a tuxedo. Both may be trimmed in Kente cloth. The traditional color of African royalty is purple, accented with gold. These may be used as accent colors worn by the bridal party.

An African American Wedding

August 2nd, 2007 by ife

224310 When a bride in the United States desires an "African-style wedding," she is usually referring to Yoruba traditions. The Yoruba style wedding is a very spiritual service which reflects the depth of the African family by the sharing of gifts and love.

The ceremony process may begin about a month before the wedding with spiritual readings. Elements of the actual ceremony may include a Libation (a prayer with an offering, usually water or liquor offered by an elder).This ritual calls upon and asks God’s blessing and the blessings of ancestral spirits.The groom verbally seeks permission from the bride’s mother to marry her daughter.

Gifts are presented to the bride’s family symbolizing the ability of the groom to take care of this woman. They are accepted by the bride’s father. Other elements of the ceremony may include a tasting and explanation of spices, prayers, exchange of rings. A great celebration follows.

The Word Marriage

August 2nd, 2007 by ife
TO THE MARRIED FOLKS, and a preview to the not-married- yet ones!
THE WORD MARRIAGE!!!

Have a laugh
Guys.

When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.
Sacha Guitry

After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just can’t face each other, but still they stay together.
Hemant Joshi

By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll be happy. If you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher. Socrates

Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them.
Dumas

The great question… which I have not been able to answer… is, "What does a woman want?
Sigmund Freud

I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me. < B>
Anonymous

"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays."
Henny Youngman

"I don’t worry about terrorism. I was married for two years." < /I>
Sam Kinison

"There’s a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It’s called marriage."
James Holt McGavran

"I’ve had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me, and the second one didn’t."
Patrick Murray


Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming
1. Whenever you’re wrong, admit it,
2. Whenever you’re right, shut up.

Nash

The most effective way to remember your wife’s birthday is to forget it once…
Anonymous

You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to.
Henny Youngman

My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.
Rodney Dangerfield

A good wife always forgives her husband when she’s wrong.
Milton
Berle

Marriage is the only war where one sleeps with the enemy.
Anonymous

A man inserted an ‘ad’ in the classifieds: "Wife wanted". Next day he received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have mine."
Anonymous

First Guy (proudly): "My wife’s an angel!"
Second Guy: "You’re lucky, mine’s still alive."

SEND THIS TO ALL THE GUYS TO GIVE THEM A GOOD LAUGH……AND TO THOSE LADIES WITH A SENSE OF HUMOUR WHO CAN HANDLE IT!!!!!!!

THE END.